Lenses

Okay, yes I know previous entry was a bit heavy. And I don't like to leave angry entries at the top for too long. I'm okay, things have already happened, there's nothing more I can do, right?

Life is like that, nobody said it would be easy. But it is in choosing to ride over it that we become better people. It's a bit like surfing, perhaps. You can ride the wave, or get crushed by it. Your choice.

Good things, bad things - they are constantly happening. The only constant is change. We have to choose which lens we want to view things through.

Rosy Lenses or Bleak Lenses - it doesn't change the things that happen, but it changes the way we feel about them. So why wouldn't anyone choose to feel good?

What goes down eventually must go up. Things will be better, I promise :)

29 deconstructions on:
"Lenses"

  1. Shaun deconstructed this:
    "it doesn't change the things that happen, but it changes the way we feel about them."

    This is so true. (:
    Great that you're up again!
    :D
  2. J@son deconstructed this:
    Hi Nat. I'm glad that u found time 2 upadate yr blog 1ce again, its great. :)
    Btw, u haven tell me do u noe where can I get the song Dao Da that u sang for "Smell Of Rain" cos I've bin finding this song sinz march this yr but I couldn't find it. If u happen 2 noe, do u mind telling me where can I get the mp3 format of this song? :)
    Thank You. :)
    Do update more.
  3. Rex deconstructed this:
    yoyo~ first time here.
    not really know you at first but after i found you on the cover page of magazine and some friends blog mention about you, just realize you are actor... omg... =p
    nice blog. will come often =)

    一个人的快乐,不是他拥有的多,而是他计较的少
    share this with you which i think quite meaningful.. =) cheers mr.nat
  4. Nat deconstructed this:
    shaun>> yup i'm glad too :)

    j@son>> hi jason, this song is not available online in mp3 format.
  5. CY deconstructed this:
    Have a little laugh at life and look around you for happiness. Laughter has always brought one out of unhappy situations. In your unhappy moment, try recalling things to laugh about and you will feel better.

    Angels are always watching over you whenever times are good or stressed. Their wings wrap gently around you, whispering that you are loved and blessed.

    So Celebrate each time you overcome a problem, it's correspond to a raise in your achievement!
  6. J@son deconstructed this:
    Ouh.. Thank you very much.. I'll watch en bloc tonight kay? So r u less busy nowadays?
    Anywae, do take care and stay happy. :)
  7. seen your blog seen last ver deconstructed this:
    God does not change. You know that too.
    Visited your church b4 at SAJC.

    He is waiting for you to be back to Him again.
  8. Benjamin deconstructed this:
    Hi, been reading your blog for quite a while. sometimes the people around us disapoint us the most.

    i feel miserable too. exams are approaching but i seem to know nuts. probably going to flunk everything.

    anyway, cheer up k. (its easier to cheer somebody up then yourself) at least you have got good looks. i will probably be a road sweeper.

    disillusionalised.
  9. ziying deconstructed this:
    hii nat..yup..agree..is not reali gd 2 b angry 4 long..better 2 live with joy all dae..hee..

    r u a singer..?cos u can sing well ma..oso heard ppl saying dat u sang alot of song b4 liao..both in eng n chinese version..anyway i heard b4 ur chinese song lei..is superb e nice lo..e CYN n SING album..thou tis 2 album is already considered e past..but i m still listening 2 it..as u,elvin,jess,felicia..all sang well..n u ppl oso hv e same tune..is 2gether n perfect..i lve it man..haha..

    u r reali great in both acting n singing..so do sing more in future 2..is gd if u can hv an album urself..n hv an autograph session as well..do u intend 2 get ur own album..?jiayou n keep it up..nat..sure dat u can excel..

    kz..do update more n reply if u happen 2 read my comment..thx..do take care..bye..
  10. Qing Hui deconstructed this:
    Yesterday, or maybe 2 days ago is history. It's time to face today and tomorrow with a new perspective! :D
  11. limhwaiyi deconstructed this:
    heyoo! hahas... have been a frequent visitor to your blog =) hahas... read your updates...
    yea... there might be some ups and downs in life but there is a purpose in ever thing. So cheer up yea! hahas... live happy ^^

    hwaiyi =)
  12. limhwaiyi deconstructed this:
    heyys! do visit my blog yeah(if you are free) ^^ hahhas

    cheers!
  13. Michelle deconstructed this:
    everyone would have their downs.
    im sure your gloomy days would be gone eventually.
    CHEERS! :)
  14. Miko deconstructed this:
    We only live once, so just forgive and forget.
    Cheer up! ^_^
  15. daniel deconstructed this:
    eh. nat. i think this guy somehow represent you.
    derrick.nutang.com. go have a look.
  16. x deconstructed this:
    hey cheers no matter what! I hope things will be better for you. jiayou!
  17. x deconstructed this:
    try gg for a jog when you feel all those pent-up emotions. it helps! tc.
  18. jeero deconstructed this:
    hEy Nat

    u wil be a'rite..smile smile ya..
    things wil be ok..u see..
  19. Asril deconstructed this:
    Hey Nat! It's been long since I've been here and yes, I've read all your entries since my last visit. I'm glad that you're feeling much better now.

    By the way, I think En Bloc is a really good show because truthfully, I'm a sucker for family shows. I especially loved the examination of the relationship between your father and your "gor" in the story. Anyway, I hope things will get better for you as time goes by in every aspect of your life, yeah? Rock on, dude!

    P.S. I actually stay in the actual Tampines Grove and nope, my estate's not up for En Bloc... yet. Hahahaha...
  20. littlespunk deconstructed this:
    hello! long time no see! how's stuffs?
    i hope things are getting better, it will ya!:)

    anyway, i'll be going down to catch smell of rain next friday so yeah,FINALLY! missed it the last time haha. hope u're doing fine so far.

    take care!!
  21. recca4 deconstructed this:
    Cheer up wor~~

    Things will definitely be going well for you~~

    Lac lac~~ haha~~
  22. Cheeky deconstructed this:
    Sunshine after the rain...
    阳光总在风雨后,

    As the others have said it - forgive and forget...we can choose to be (happy)!

    You saw my email?
    Stay true to yourself and your beliefs, Nat.
  23. Tanat deconstructed this:
    "Things will be better, I promise"... sounds a lot like Anakin's words to Padme before he set off for Mustafar in Star Wars Episode III... just after he was given the name of Darth Vader :-)

    And yep, Im going for the 1st day screening at Sinema Old School this Friday... havent seen you for a long time liao!!
  24. wei zhi deconstructed this:
    Cheers Nat,

    I know how u feel as i was in your situation many years back. It took me some time to really understand it and that Life is full of ups n downs, but whatever it is - Life still need to goes on rite ? So dun take it too hard. There are still ur love ones, good frds and supporter around u and i m sure their care, concern and support will always be with u.

    p/s: Heard ur voice at 933 radio drama show "Branded Lady", ur voice is damm sexy and nice man, :p

    Regards,
    wz
  25. Tanat deconstructed this:
    I understand how u feel, Nat... my latest anguish has got to do with a fellow NATural whose name I obviously cannot mention here (it's the 'bittergourd' in my latest blog entries). Someone who played on the kindness of others and hen went on to devise wicked scehems on them. And there are even ungrateful fans who dare to accuse the organizers for 'cheating them off their cash' regarding a gathering that went on quite well! Totally unforgivable...
  26. Sean deconstructed this:
    HEY NAT!!!!

    STAY HAPPY ALWAYS ALRIGHT!I WANT TO SEE YOU HAPPY!

    You look like you are going to eat someone up, when you are angry!I am serious! XDDDD

    No matter what happens, you know there are still people around you showing you care and concern!!!

    All the best to you and keep smilling alright!!!!

    Sean!
  27. Crystal deconstructed this:
    Hey Nat! Life is short and try to make the best out of everything. Let every setback be a lesson learnt! Things will only get better for you ya? I wish the best for you! Jia you! (:
  28. Derrick deconstructed this:
    Hi Nat,

    Cheer up....read the article in Chinese paper before reading ur blog.

    ...
  29. Qing Hui deconstructed this:
    "Yesterday, or maybe 2 days ago is history. It's time to face today and tomorrow with a new perspective! :D''

    Woopsie, I know this is slow, but I realised I mad a mistake. It's supposed to be "prospective", not "perspective". ;D


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